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I Think This May Just Be the End

September 4, 2007

You know I thought about it all day yesterday and most of this morning.  I think I am gonna talk to hubby tonight…or whenever AF shows up….about just stopping now with the whole TTC thing instead of waiting to hit the 3 year mark. 

 It doesn’t make any sense to keep going when we aren’t really optimistic about the whole thing and then adding pressure of a deadline….

 He still hasn’t indicated that hes ready to start up with adoption again so maybe the pressure being completely off would be a better option for us at this point.  Of course I wouldn’t go back on any kind of birth control and use the charting to avoid rather than to concieve.

 Maybe I could just finally get over it if we weren’t trying at all. 

We’ll figure it out by Sunday I think….

3 Comments leave one →
  1. ilissa permalink
    September 4, 2007 11:44 am

    if you think you are ready to stop, i’m here to support you!

    if there continues to be hope for conception, moving forward with adoption can be tough. maybe it makes adoption to continue to be the second choice. if you both agree to stop TTC altogether, DH may just be able to look past, well, TTC and be happy to choose to move forward with adoption.

  2. dayzofrain permalink
    September 4, 2007 11:53 am

    Thanks alot! I really appreciate it. Thing is that adoption was always first choice for us..but with saving the money we would need we started goin the TTC route. I think maybe we just need to get back to that point..or maybe we just need time to not think of either option.

    AHH who knows right? Like I said.. I’ll approach him about it..see what he says

    Thanks again!!!

  3. ilissa permalink
    September 4, 2007 12:32 pm

    i’m in your corner…looking forward to hearing how your conversation goes…xoxox

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